New York Dating Blog

Still haven't heard back from Sharon yet. That whole situation makes me feel cheap and used. I have never had a girl just sleep with me and then never call me again. I have only experienced me doing it to them. This has given me a new perspective on life at least in terms of what women are capable of. I have been getting plenty of messages from Maria and I have been a bit cold to her because I am not really in a rush to go out with her again because of her baggage. The thing is the more I push this girl away, the more she wants me, so it's not really working out very good.

I went on a date with a Persian girl on Saturday night so lemme tell you about that. I took her to a place called Bottega del Vino which is a high end Italian restaurant. The place was pretty overpriced but the food was really good and so was the wine. She was very impressed with the place but then again she is only 23 years old so she hadn't experienced much in life I don't think. She was very attractive and I was looking at her arms to make sure they weren't too hairy because these middle eastern girls tend to have hairy arms but hers were ok. She had big bouncy natural breasts and they were quite distracting most of the night. She moved to New York from Iran when she was 12 years old. She told me some horror stories about her homeland and I was happy for her that she was able to get out of there and come live in the USA. She said she experiences racism for being from Iran and with everything going on in that country with the uranium processing etc I am not that surprised. I had a veal dish and she ate some vegetarian risotto which I sampled and it was really good. I miss having good risotto but I never order it at a restaurant because they usually serve it as a main course and who wants to eat nothing but rice as a meal?

We talked for a long time and she told me she hadn't really ever been in a real relationship before and that she had mainly hooked up with guys that were douche bags and bad boy type of guys and she wasn't sure why she liked those guys so much but said she wanted to find something more real and perhaps fall in love with someone. After dinner I suggested we go somewhere else for drinks but she suggested we go back to her place and I was like um... ok.

So we arrive at her condo by taxi and I am starting to feel nervous as I do not know what to expect from this girl. She seemed a bit conservative and reserved but after hearing about the kind of guys she was dating I started to think maybe this girl is a bit of a quiet wild one. We get into her small cozy apartment and I take off my shoes, turn around to start saying something and her lips are pressed up against mine and I was like wtf but yay. We ripped our clothes off on the way to the bedroom and I tripped on something and bailed on the ground hard. It was pretty distracting to be in pain but I suffered through it and got her onto the bed.

The next morning I laid there in her bed while she was in the shower thinking that was a bit of a surprise. I felt pretty good about myself and was tempted to just slip out the door and head on home but she emerged naked from the bathroom before I could leave and the next thing I knew she was straddled on top of me and I never ended up leaving until about noon. I was killer hungry and had a craving for a good philly cheese steak. Stopped on the way home at this joint I know, picked up my sandwich and went home. Life is good. Meeting girls online is a lot of fun

So I have not heard back from Sharon yet and I am pretty pissed off about that even thought things are going well. I really thought she was going to be the one sigh. Anyhoo, I have been chatting with this Spanish girl named Maria for some time now and she expressed that she loves sushi so I told her I would take her to an awesome place. I searched online and thanks to this nice sushi review guide I found, I was able to select Jewel Bako in the East Village to take her to.

The place was amazing and was definitely some of the best sushi I have ever had. Yes it was expensive but I was prepared for that going in and we didn't drink any alcohol while we were there so the bill wasn't too bad. The interior was amazing, the service was amazing and I would definitely go back.

After dinner I decided to switch gears and took her to 11th Street Bar which is an Irish Pub. We had some beers and just chilled and talked for a long while. Turns out that she is 28 years old and she has a 7 year old daughter. I acted like having a kid wasn't a big deal but in my head I was disappointed and unsure if I could handle that kind of "baggage". SHe was definitely mature for her age, but I guess having a kid young will do that to you. She said the father was a deadbeat and was living in Madrid.

She told me she would like to have more kids in the future which again is something I am not sure I want. She was very attractive, and yet very typical looking for a latin woman. I could tell she was definitely attracted to me but she also came across as a very cautious girl and I was thinking that I could probably score with this girl but I wasn't sure if that would open a can of worms... is this the kind of girl I really want?

I took her home, we exchanged a brief kiss and I told her I would talk to her online again soon.

I have been chatting with this woman named Sharon online for a few weeks now and she has finally agreed to go out with me on a date. She is divorced and she is older than me, but she looks really good in her pics and on her webcam when we chat. She has a little boy who is 8 years old and he seems like a good kid. Her husband left her a few years ago, she still really hasn't told me why.

I drove to her house and picked her up. As soon as I saw her long brown hair as she walked out into the crisp cold New York night, my heart started to race. I am used to dating girls that are my age or younger, yeah usually younger so I don't have a lot of experience with older women... though I really shouldn't use that term older women since she doesn't look "old". Her perfume was intoxicating... I don't know what it is, but I'm addicted to the strange scent of a new woman... it's exciting and foreign all at the same time. She had really sexy hips and I had this feeling my conversation wasn't going to be too intelligent tonight. So first we went for dinner at Arabelle Restaurant on 64th St. near Madison Avenue.

The place was amazing. The whole ceiling is round like a dome and gold colored. She was very impressed with the place and I don't think she has much experience dining in high end establishments. She was radiating at the table and the whole time I kept thinking, man I can't believe she is 43 years old... what do I do with a woman like this (other than the obvious)? I ordered a bottle of red wine and we dug into heavy conversation. There was such a build up to meet, that when we finally met it was great. All that chatting online with her made me feel like I already knew her, but once we were there face to face I realized I had only scratched the surface and I was very excited. She was smiling a lot and looking quite sexy in the black dress she was wearing. I had a veal dish and she had salmon. The food was amazing. I will definitely going back there often just based on the food alone.

She was quite knowledgeable for being 43 and yet she had a very young spirit to her and dare I say some innocence which was very refreshing. I felt more jaded than her. After dinner we talked quite a long time, until the restaurant was closing in fact. This was not one of those dates where I slam back drink after drink and visualize the girl naked the whole time she blabs in my ear about her pet cat... no no... I was actually listening to this woman speak and giving her my undivided attention. There was nothing sexual or intense about the whole evening. Just a lot of smiling and soft speaking. This is why I was shocked when we got to her place that she invited me up.

We had one amazing night and I left around 3am grinning from ear to ear after an incredible night of passion. I really hope she was being sincere about the things she was saying because I think that this one could be the one... despite her age.

I really wanted to take this German girl I met to a good Thai restaurant. I looked online to try and find some good reviews of some places and thanks to this nice review, the night went very well. The place we went to was called Sriphraphai in Long Island. I'm glad I made reservations because the place was very busy. Ordering food was a bit of a laugh and my date looked overwhelmed by all the choices and lack of knowledge of Thai food. I ordered a duck dish and she got something vegetarian. I drank a couple of double Bloody Marys kind of quick so most of the eating experience was a bit blurry. She said she liked it, but wouldn't be in a rush to do Thai again :/ That sucks because I really like Thai food and was hoping we could make this a regular thing. We took a cab to her place, exchanged a nice kiss, and she got out. She wasn't really giving me the vibe to come up etc so I played it cool and said goodnight and took the cab back to my place.