New York Dating Blog

I am starting to notice the difference when I look in the mirror from all the hard work I have been doing with Sven. That guy is nuts and sometimes I get really mad at him because he pushes me so hard but at the end of the day I am grateful and happy that he is like this because I am seeing and feeling the results already. I know I am going to have to stick with it for at least another 90 days before I am going to see anything significant but at least I feel better physically and my cardio is much better now.

I did find 11 new girls to message and I also sent messages to a few of the older girls I was talking to in the past to see if there is anything there still. So far I have got back quite a few replies and clearly these girls are liking what they see and hear thus far. I am talking to 4 of these girls on MSN now and one of them I have been talking to on the phone because she is not very internet savvy and so she has never used instant messaging before and she said she would prefer to talk on the phone because that is what she is used to and also she said she really wanted to hear the sound of my voice. That is fine by me because I see that as better than talking on MSN. It is more personable and intimate to actually talk to someone with voice like on the phone or over voice chat like Skype but there is some good things about MSN. The main good thing is you can say things and ask questions more easily. I find it easier to discuss more intense subjects via msn because it is so inpersonable and you can't physically hear or feel any awkwardness.

The girls that I have been talking to are all various ages and different personalities. I am excited to be talking to so many different girls at once and I am seeing things in a whole new perspective. It is amazing how their cultural differences translate into the dating scene. There are a lot of hot girls in New York City and I am happy to get a chance to meet so many different girls and learning lots about them. I have to say I am learning a lot about women in general from this whole experience. I am working on setting up some dates for this coming weekend with some of the girls. The one thing that I am balancing now is that I have put out messages to multiple girls about going out with me this weekend and if more than 2 of them say yes then I am going to have to work something out or turn some of them down because it is not possible to go on more 2 dates this weekend, one on Saturday and one on Sunday.

Well I have been back working out at the gym with a vengeance. I seen some younger guys last week that were looking so buff I was jealous as hell and decided I want to look like that. I want to look like I did when I was 21. Quite often women are attracted to me because I am smart, drive a nice car, wear nice clothes, and make lots of money but I want women to be attracted to me because I look hot and sexy I hired a personal trainer named Sven and he is quite the character. He pushes me really hard and that is something that I need because I get lazy easy when it comes to working out and I cheat and don't do as many reps or sets as I know I should. That is all different now that Sven is training me, he pushes me to do MORE reps and sets than I planned on doing. He is a slave driver but I can already feel the results so it's all good. He came highly recommended from a bunch of my buddies here in New York city.

Work has been quite busy and I am working on some pretty big deals right now, as usual. These big deals always take a long time to close and but when they finally do, it is all worth it and when they go sideways it always sucks big time because that means at least 90 days of work down the tubes Other than that life is pretty much the same workwise.

As far as women go, I have been slacking. The 20 girls I messaged, I got all kinds of messages back from them and some of them I followed up on but most of them I didn't contact back right away so I assume most of the have moved on or perhaps even met new guys already and are in relationships. I went through all the messages this morning and made a point of messaging each girl with something meaningful so I can qualify each one and shorten my short list, well I guess I mean make a short list of girls that have potential. Later tonight I am going to go through the whole site again and look at the new girls that have joined recently and see if there is anything that catches my eye. I am pretty sure I will find at least 10 new girls that I think are hot of various age ranges because so many new girls join the site every week. I will let you all know how that goes and also how the older girls I am working on go because I expect to get a lot of new messages over the weekend.

Hello my loyal readers, I hope you all had a great New Years Eve and Xmas vacation. I must sadly report that I have not yet heard back from Rhonda and I was hoping that maybe she just was busy with holidays and stuff but it is now the 5th and still no word from her. I am tempted to drive over and visit her again but I am worried about running into her psycho brothers and I am also worried about seeing her and her not wanting to see me, in other words, there is a reason she hasn't contacted me yet and maybe it is because she is bored of me or maybe she met someone new.

I have to focus on 2010 and the new women I am going to meet. I was really enjoying the time off and it sucks that I am now back at work. I haven't got much work done today yet, pretty much just been playing Lexicon on facebook all day hehe. I have also been searching through the online dating site I am a member of looking for new girls to meet. I have sent out about 20 different messages to 20 different girls and now I am waiting to get some replies back. It is amazing how many new girls join this site every week. I was begin to get worried that I had already found all the low hanging fruit but then I see these hot new chicks joining almost daily and I am like yay.

I have a meeting to go to soon, I have to leave in like 10 mins so I will keep this brief. Christmas was ok, spent that time with my parents in the Hamptons and my whole family was there. It wasn't bad other than all the snow and stuff. New Years Eve was pretty good, spent it in Times Square of course with a couple of buddies. We partied until 5am that night, was good times but left me with a killer hangover. I really need to start doing yoga again and start working out again because I am getting out of shape and losing my muscle mas and I am also starting to gain some fat. Talk to you all soon.